Is There Anything Such as Bad Sex? (2)

Having sex as a married couple should be mutually fulfilling. The act of sex as couples should be the place where we express the most level of freedom bodily wise. Feel free, even in the act of sex to moanfully tell your spouse- “no baby”, and be free to guide him to the spot that would make you tickle. Shyness and fear are products of lack of intimacy, which in turn leads to lack of adequate communication, and as a result- Horrible, hurried and bad sex.

One other reason we (constantly) have bad sex is- (unnoticed) change. Just like our bodies change over the years, our desires as well changes. The way you liked sex when you married your spouse might not be the way you like it now. Not because of anything per se (except for illness and conditions), but just because of time, body changes and sometimes over familiarity. The body sometimes wants new tricks and treat. As a result, as married spouses, we must be aware of not just our mind change per time, but also our body change. We must pay adequate attention to ourselves in order to detect the ways in which our bodies have changed (over time) and how to respond to these changes such that would bring us to the level of past pleasures, and even much more.

Being the beginning of the year, it’ll be good to use this season to make the adjustments necessary (especially for couples who lives miles apart and majorly gets to see during periods like this- beginning of the year). Give your body exactly what it needs, and in the case you can’t really pinpoint, feel free to do various experiments with your spouse till you get to the moments where you scream and moan without a care. This season, let your spouse so hit the spot so much such that you forget about where you are (especially for ladies who tend to be so security conscious). Make your spouse call your name this season, and not his/her ex’s name (in their mind). Take charge and lead the way for your happiness if need be, and in as much as you take the charge for your own happiness, allow your spouse too take the lead for his/her own happiness as well, bearing in mind that a mutually satisfied couple tends towards being a happy couple.

Till I come your way next week Wednesday, keep showing your spouse the one million and one ways to hit the spot with you.

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